The one who doesn't want to commit

If the guy says he doesn't want to commit at this time, he's most likely in another relationship.

Trust your gut. Trust what your instincts are telling you.

He's most likely committed if he says he's not looking for anything serious. Even when you both already know that you're both attracted to each other. And it feels like at any sparkling moment, you want to lock lips with that person just to see if it is just sexual tension or if there's something more.

Don't give in.

Don't give in until you're Facebook friends. 

Until he introduces you to someone else in his life like a close friend, or someone from work.

Don't let him in your house if he can't even take you to a nice dinner.

Don't believe his bullshit when he say that he's just not the commitment type of guy - remember that he already had relationships before you and you know that you are an amazing AF of a woman who don't compare to other girls he's screwing.

Remember that you deserve the effort.

You have some much to offer. And you have everything to lose if you let him in your life or in your heart.

You deserve to be spent time with. 

Because you know that you'll give up your "free time" as well, that you'd give up on sleeping, being with yourself (peace and serenity), reading a book, doing your laundry, or spending time with family.