Here's my answer to the question: Which do you prefer to have, the one who loves you, or the one you love. This is also for those who are waiting for the person they love to love them back openly, to those who are looking for love and those who know that their love is not meant to be.
Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we love, we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us.
We miss out on so many beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns. Go for the man of deeds, and not for the man of words. For you will find rewarding happiness not with the man you love but with the man who loves you more.
The best lovers are those who are capable of loving from a distance, far enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the love deep within your soul.
To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving. It only means that you allow that person to find his won happiness without expecting him to come back.
Letting go is not just setting the other person free but it is also setting yourself from all bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart.
Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength and weaken your faith. And never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearing it. You may find peace in just loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life, but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories
of the part but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.
There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful. And we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions..
You don't have to forget someone you love.
What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself.
Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving. Don't let your heart run your life. Be sensible, and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well.
Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow.
If you lose love, that doesn't mean that you failed in love.
Cry if you have to. But make sure that tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you.
Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you.
And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a life time.
People come in ourlives for a reason.
It is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with the guidance and support. To aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to stand.
What we must realize is that our needs has been met, our desires fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it's time to move on.
People come into your life for a SEASON. Because your turn has come to share, grow and learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or may you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it is real, but only for a season.
LIFETIME relationship teaches you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind, but friendship is clairvoyant.
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